Custody schedule guides

Every Custody Schedule, Explained

Calendar visuals, pros and cons, age recommendations, and comparison tables. Find the schedule that fits your family.

Quick comparison

ScheduleSplitTransitions/fortnightLongest stretchBest age
2-2-350/5063 nights2–8
5-2-2-550/5045 nights6–14
3-4-4-350/5044 nights4–12
Week-on/week-off50/5027 nights11+
Every other weekend~80/2029 nightsAll ages

How to choose a custody schedule

Your child's age

Young children (under 6) do best with frequent contact with both parents and short stretches away from either. School-age children need weekday consistency. Teens need longer blocks and fewer transitions.

Distance between homes

Schedules with frequent transitions require parents to live close enough that transitions do not mean long car rides or school changes. If homes are far apart, longer blocks with fewer transitions are more practical.

Your conflict level

High-conflict situations favor fewer transitions (5-2-2-5 over 2-2-3, week-on/week-off for teens) because every handoff is an opportunity for escalation. Parallel parenting structures work best here.

Work schedules

Fixed weekday assignments (like 5-2-2-5) work well when one parent always has the same off days. More flexible arrangements may suit shift workers or parents with irregular schedules.

The child's preferences

Courts give increasing weight to a child's stated preferences as they get older. Teens especially may have strong views about transitions during school activities or social events.

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